Teaching Your Teen Good Money Management
by Jennifer Tarzian
Description: Tips for teaching teens how to manage money.
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Okay, you want your teenager to be more responsible with money.
Do you remember when you were a teenager? Did you act
responsibly with your money? What were some of the things your
parents did to teach you about handling your money better?
In this article we will discuss some of the ways you can teach
your teen to be responsible when it comes to both money and
credit. We will discuss several options in regards to credit
and cash management for teenagers.
Many of us, even as adults, don’t really know a lot about money
management. This article may also help you as an adult manage
your money and credit better. First let’s discuss goal setting.
Why do you need to manage your money? What are you trying to
accomplish?
The first thing you can introduce your teen to and maybe even
yourself to do, is tracking where your money goes. How many
times have you asked, “Where did I spend all that money?” If
you have ever asked that then tracking your money can give you
great insight into managing your budget better.
There are workbooks you can buy or you can use a simple
notebook. Have your teen do this with you so you can both learn
together. If you make it a family experience, your teen is more
likely to pay attention and participate, because they will get
to see how you manage your money too. It has the extra benefit
of making you manage your money better to set a good example.
In this new workbook you and your teen write down every
expense. Every time you or they spend money on ANYTHING, it
gets written down. Not in a category, what was actually paid
for with the money. You will be able to review this later when
building categories like, “Items I could have done without.”
When you review your workbooks together, trade them. Each of
you can mark what expenses the other probably should not have
paid out and how much money you could each have saved if you
didn’t make those extra expenditures.
It isn’t a bad idea for you to make a couple of mistakes on
purpose so your teen gains confidence that they can handle
their money and identify what expenditures were not necessary.
You need to understand that the spending habits your teenager
acquires in their teens will stay with them for the rest of
their life.
An allowance is okay, but just until they get a job. Never make
the allowance enough to get the things they want most. Make them
learn to save their money up to buy those things. Once they do
have even a part-time job, no more allowance. They will respect
the money they earn a lot more than the money you give them.
When your teenager is around 16 and has a job, help them open
their own checking account. Teach them how to balance their
checkbook. If you have been doing the workbook with them, this
should be easy. You can help them get a prepaid credit card or
teach them how to use the debit card that comes with their new
checking account responsibly.
Again, if you two have been doing your workbook and marking
down everything you spend money on, managing a debit card will
be easy. Also by continuing to do the workbook, you will both
learn how to save more money because you will be more aware of
where your money gets wasted.
We all want to help our teens and we want to buy them nice
things, but as parents we also need to teach them
responsibility. Nowhere is that more important than teaching
them to be responsible with money and credit.
Buy them the necessities, but make them pay for the extras.
That applies to clothing, school supplies, or anything else,
especially where your teenager decides they want the better,
more expensive version of the items in question. Let them pay
for the extras and they will appreciate their money much more
or will learn to do without the most expensive item.
If you help them with the purchase of a car, offer to match
them dollar for dollar toward the car. If you do plan to buy
the car for them, make them responsible for the payment of the
insurance, gas, and other extras. That will also have the added
benefit of teaching them to respect and take care of their
automobile.
I hope this article has given you some ideas about how to teach
your teen how to handle credit and money. Just to repeat one
thing, remember that what you teach your teen about money and
credit now will determine how successful they will be later in
life. So take the time to teach them.
For more information about credit, go to
http://creditcards.youngparentsmagazine.com. Jennifer also has a
lot of information at http://www.youngparentsmagazine.com for
parents. Chris McElroy has been an advocate for consumer rights
on the Internet since 1995 and also runs a missing children’s
organization at http://www.kidsearchnetwork.org.
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Teaching Teens the Value of Money
Raising a Self-Sufficient Teen
Teaching Your Child to Manage Money
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